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Back-to-school time is here! Along with the excitement of
new experiences comes the challenge of getting ready for the year ahead. How do
you cope? Think creatively! Creativity can help you find colorful and crafty
ways to get through the back to school rush, connect with your kids and have
fun in the process.
Why Encourage Creativity?
A universal desire among parents is that their children
grow up to be successful. Parents wonder what helps children attain success.
Today’s emphasis on standardized testing makes parents ask, “Does success
equate with doing well on standardized tests?” “No,” say the experts. Dr.
Robert J. Sternberg, Dean of the School of Arts & Sciences at Tufts
University is a renowned psychologist who specializes in determining what makes
people successful. His latest research demonstrates that imagination and
creativity are as important as intelligence in predicting how successful people
will be later in life. Dr. Sternberg has found that standardized tests are not
the best predictors of success. He recommends that instead of testing students
with standardized multiple choice questions, where children are asked to
memorize and regurgitate facts, teachers and parents should focus on developing
children’s creativity.
Why encourage creativity? Creative skills are important
for children’s long-term success. Many parents wonder “Are some kids born
creative, while others lack this gift?” The good news for parents is that Dr.
Sternberg has found that “creativity is not something people are either blessed
with at birth or doomed to be without for life”. He says, “Raising creative
children is a decision parents can make and a habit to be practiced. Provide
your children with opportunities and supplies that foster creativity.” It’s
empowering for parents to realize that simple steps they take, such as giving
their kids crayons and paint, lead to their children’s life-long success.
Creative Solutions
As parents we all have a lot of stress in our lives.
Eighty percent of moms with school-age kids are working. The top challenge
identified as causing stress is “trying to get everything done.” It may be hard
to imagine being creative when you are in a rush. You may think you aren’t the
creative type. However, being creative is simply thinking or behaving
imaginatively. This is something you do in your balancing act as a parent
everyday. Actively applying your creative know-how to your school preparations
can make this time something you and your kids actively enjoy. Here are a few
creative ideas for you and your child to consider:
*?Check it out! Create a morning checklist with
everything they need to do you get out the door. Post this list to help avoid
morning madness.
*?Food in a flash. Make flash cards with favorite
breakfast and packed lunch solutions. On Sunday, select your “food in a flash”
for the week.
*?Be prepared! Over 80% of elementary classroom teachers
give students lists stating exactly what supplies to bring to school. Use the
shopping time to learn more about your kids and communicate about their hopes
and fears. Consider buying extras of items your child may use up before the
school year ends at the promotional prices available now.
* Make your mark. Create colorful bookmarks for all
books you will be reading at school. Encourage reading by starting a family
book club.
*?Organize for success. Work with your child to find a
backpack or school bag that fits their needs. Designate pockets or places to
keep all their supplies neatly stowed away. Once a month clean out the bag to
keep the organization going strong.
*?Review key skills. Look for printable worksheets on
http://www.crayola.com/ and other internet sites to review key skills in a fun
way. Use crazy colors to do math problems, answer every other question on a
worksheet or use crayons to write in cursive.
*?Beat the rainy day blues. Embellish a notebook cover
with pictures that express your child’s interests. Bring the notebook in on
rainy days to make indoor recess more fun.
*?Find a home base. Designate a homework station in your
home. Set aside a quiet area with all the supplies needed to tackle school
assignments. Have fun personalizing this area and making it an inspirational
learning environment.
Connecting Creatively
Researchers have identified a special bond between
parents and kids today. Parents relish in connecting with their kids. In fact,
the Yankelovich Group, who coined the term “generation gap” 40 years ago, says
“the gap is zapped.” Instead of pulling in opposing directions, now parents and
kids are in synch. Parents also enjoy connecting with their kids by bringing
back fond childhood memories of their own. The Yankelovich Youth Monitor found
that 87% of parents “get a real kick out of seeing their kids enjoy the same
kind of things that they did when they were kids.”
Look at the back-to-school preparations not as a chore
but as a bonding experience with your child. Listen to their laughter. Talk
about your experiences. Come up with new and creative ways to make the school
year more fun and stress-free for your family. Thinking creatively prepares
your child for life by encouraging them to discover new solutions, to be open
to ideas and to be independent. By modeling creative solutions for your child
you are helping them learn valuable skills that they will be able to use their
whole lives.
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